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GENDY
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PostPosted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 2:01 pm    Post subject: Masturbation Reply with quote
PLIZ THIS DOES NOT REFLECT SENDERS.......... OPINION..

I remember the first time i masturbated was when i was 24..i wish i started earlier..its good to communicate with your body..now if there is anyone here who believes in some of these myths..then read this article carefully an extract from Jessica Stumper's article...


Masturbation is very very normal..spanner your way to ultimate sexual happinessLaughing


The first step towards eradication of this guilt is knowledge. There are thousands of myths around masturbation. Most of them perperated by religion, unfortunately. But some perperated by scam runners. Lets take a look at the most important ones.

1. Masturbation is against the will of god.
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cheptabkoret
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PostPosted: Sun Feb 17, 2008 9:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
regardless of all that.... most shrinks advice against it coz of addiction n further impact on normal sexuality
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 3:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
its bad for men
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 3:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
...and women.
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 3:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
some say its good. self pleasure isnt so bad. Too much damages skin. Thats what doctors say.
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 6:02 am    Post subject: You are selfish. Reply with quote
By engaging in musturbation you are denying someone else the chance to share the pleasure that comes along with sex,sex binds us together and the exploits in the field make it more intresting and we get to know one another much more,
thats why it should always be between a man and a chick,not you and your hands or whatever.......................
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 10:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
I don't see anything wrong with it. What someone does in their own privacy is their own biz. Kila nyani na starehe zake. Laughing

From my high school teacher (make sure you are taking notes):

Heterosexual - Someone who has sex with members of the opposite sex
Homosexual - One who does it with people of the same sex
Bi-sexual - One who has no special preference and does it with either sex
Mono-sexual - One who has sex with him/her self.
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 20, 2008 12:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
This might seem awkward but goes hand in hand with your faith and what your conscience tell you. IT IS WRONG AND (USING STRONG WORDS) IT IS SIN!!!! First ask yourself if your conscience are right with GoD? If okay, then continue. Again you cannot have sex out or before marriage!!
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 20, 2008 12:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
Will you die when you don't do it? Youths should guard themselves from Pornographic materials because this drives them to do such things. Tos kararan iman Biikchok bo kutit? Think twice before entering into it!!!! Pliz, the Elites of Kalenjin Land, don't let our young beloveth bros and sisters mess up with life. I would urge that you, who thinks it is ok, to perish alone and don't make disciples of things that will ruin their lives. Achamok Biikabkutit!!! I love the coming generation too!!!
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 20, 2008 1:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
Edwin wrote:
This might seem awkward but goes hand in hand with your faith and what your conscience tell you. IT IS WRONG AND (USING STRONG WORDS) IT IS SIN!!!! First ask yourself if your conscience are right with GoD? If okay, then continue. Again you cannot have sex out or before marriage!!


wait a minute, masturbation is sin?...u sure about that Edwin?,..hollysmokes, if that's the case then I must have sinned a lot growing up as a little boy coz my dick was the only toy i had to play with Confused
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 20, 2008 6:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
The fact that u masturbate shows that u have a very good sex life....or for those who already tried it in early childhood,it is a sign that u are bound to have a good sex life sooner or later.
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PostPosted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 12:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
Yeah.......... like this time in Africa! where the DUDU is patrolling in the village like JANJAWEED soldiers of Darfur. masturbating helps crazy dudes to spill some excess oil in the sea........ it helps rather than find yourself in trouble.
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PostPosted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 12:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
There are better ways to keep yourself away from sex. After all, what is the whole process that takes place in your mind and heart as you musturbate?????? I can't prove my future good life with musturbation. I wish you would ask if our people used to practice it. It just came the other day and itis in the same category with homosexuallity and lesbianism. Guys don't cheat our young men and women who are looking forward to living lives pleasing to God and people!!!!!
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PostPosted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 6:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
Edwin,am just curious.Is there a verse in the bible that forbids masturbation,or that qualifies it as sex (before marriage)?In case there is no such verse,I would just like to know who came up with this idea.Am not saying that everything that pleases God should be in the bible,am just curious where one gets more doctrines from,if these aren't in the bible.
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PostPosted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 11:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
Just like lesbianism and homosexualism, masturbation is sin. this is drawn from the understanding of the scripture.The bible calls for Holiness from all sinful or evil acts. Leviticus talks much about how the Israel Nation was to do (Leviticus 15). Many verses also talk of sexual immorality and since God has given us knowledge then we should not only practice this because it is not clearly stated in the bible. The thing that qualifies this to be sexual is the idea that you do it with some strong feelings and motives of thinking about the actual act.
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PostPosted: Sun Feb 24, 2008 9:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
farmer buys several sheep, hoping to breed them for wool. After
several
weeks, he notices that none of the sheep are getting pregnant, and
phones a vet for help. The vet tells him that he should try artificial
insemination. The farmer doesn't have the slightest idea what this
means
but, not wanting to display his ignorance, only asks the vet how he
will
know when the sheep are pregnant. The vet tells him that they will stop
standing around and instead will lie down and wallow in grass when they
are pregnant. The man hangs up and gives it some thought. He comes to
the conclusion that artificial insemination means he has to impregnate
the sheep himself. So, he loads the sheep into his Land Rover, drives
them out into the woods, has sex with them all, brings them back, and
goes to bed.Next morning, he wakes and looks out at the sheep. Seeing
that they are all still standing around, he deduces that the first try
didn't take,and loads them in the Land Rover again. He drives them out
to the woods, bangs each sheep twice for good measure, brings them
back,
and goes to bed exhausted.
Next morning, he wakes to find the sheep still just standing round.
"Try
again" he tells himself, and proceeds to load them up, and drive them
out to the woods. He spends all day shagging the sheep and upon
returning home, falls listlessly into bed.
The next morning, he cannot even raise himself from the bed to look but
of the window. He asks his wife to look, and tell him if the sheep are
lying in the grass.

"No," she says, "they're all in the Land Rover, and one of them is
beeping the horn.
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 2:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
altoo wrote:
Edwin wrote:


wait a minute, masturbation is sin?...u sure about that Edwin?,..hollysmokes, if that's the case then I must have sinned a lot growing up as a little boy coz my dick was the only toy i had to play with Confused


how many cha mama/baba did u involve uaself with altoo......., woo unto those small village girls u grew up with..... near kapchai Wink Wink
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 27, 2008 11:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
Kimotwek,uz crazy!
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 01, 2008 7:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
Edwin wrote:
There are better ways to keep yourself away from sex. After all, what is the whole process that takes place in your mind and heart as you musturbate?????? I can't prove my future good life with musturbation. I wish you would ask if our people used to practice it. It just came the other day and itis in the same category with homosexuallity and lesbianism. Guys don't cheat our young men and women who are looking forward to living lives pleasing to God and people!!!!!


Pastor! I'm glad to know that you also know a thing or two about musturbation. Keep it up young man life is too short to be walking around broke sexwise.
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 12:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
TOTO, I AM SORRY TO SAY THAT I MIGHT BE FORCED TO LEAVE THE BIIKABKUTIT FORUM SIMPLY BECUASE OF YOU. I AM SORRY TO SAY THAT I CAN NO LONGER ARGUE WITH YOU BECAUSE OF THE KIND OF ARGUMENTS YOU HAVE. PLIZ, GIVE ROOM TO OTHER PEOPLE WITH GOOD MOTIVES TO PARTICIPATE IN THIS FORUM. YOU ONLY HAVE 46 POSTS AND I AM SHOCKED BECAUSE YOU ARE BEGINNING TO ANGER ME AS EARLY AS THAT!!!!!!!!!!! OFCOURSE I DO NOT WANT YOU TO AGREE WITH ME BUT I DO NOT WANT ANY ATTACKS AND THAT IS WHY I SAY THAT YOU CAN HAVE BETTER WAYS TO SPEAK!!! I DO NOT HATE YOU MY BRO, BUT BE CONCERNED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PASTOR EDWIN.
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